Thursday, June 5, 2008

You want to do WHAT???

The time has come. *sigh* My baby is going out on her first "real" date Friday night. Part of me thinks we are out of our ever loving minds. I am really NOT READY FOR THIS! Hopefully, she is. Frankly, I'm not sure, I don't know if she is or not. We've given her the tools, but this step is scary y'all. Very, very scary. We were kind of pulled into the whole dating thing (kicking and screaming) by our oldest. It snuck up on us, nice and slow...groups at first, etc. Trust me, that sounds like the perfect way to do it. It isn't. I don't think there is a perfect way. We tried to do everything right, but mistakes were still made along the way. Along comes number 2, and what do you know? She's a completely different child (how dare she!). Lessons we learned along the way with number one, just aren't that applicable with number two. That's the dirty little secret of parenting, sometimes experience just isn't going to get you through...they're all different. Our second child is much quieter than her older brother. We haven't dealt with some of the same social issues that we had already dealt with by now with him. That's payback people--just like he didn't sleep until he was 3 1/2, she slept through day one. They get along beautifully, but in a lot of ways, she's the ying to his yang, or whatever. But now, the time has come. Friday night. One a date. With a boy. In a car. With an older boy. I think I have to go throw up now.

7 comments:

Jill said...

I think I'd throw up too. Wow, a date. Though she's 16, so it's not hard to believe that she's at the right age for it.

Nonetheless, it must be bitter sweet to watch her get ready. My parents always made my dates come up to the door, introduce themselves, tell them where we were going, and promise to have me back by my curfew (can't remember what it was right now).

Good luck... and don't forget to take pictures!

Michelle said...

I hope she has a lovely time and I hope you can relax! :)

You're right in how different each child is - oh my, Lucas is such a different baby then Kayla! I tease that if he was my first he would have been the only one LOL

Beck said...

THAT IS SO SCARY! YIKES!
I hope she has a good date. And that you don't worry too much.

Kathryn said...

I think I'll throw up with you! Ack!!! That is really nerve wracking!

Lis Garrett said...

UGH. My oldest will be 9 in July, and I was just thinking how I was 10 when I got my first bra. I can handle bras, but dating?? I am SO not ready to think about that!

Kristi said...

Tonight's the night, eh? Given that you're a pretty fantastic mom, I think she has the tools she needs to handle herself exactly as you would hope she would. I think you're going to be surprised. :)

Bethany said...

Ooooh. I truly think we've decided on NO DATING. Cause we are really, mean, horrible parents. And it's easy to say that when the oldest is nine. Yep, no dating.

Hope it all goes well! :D

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