Normal day, let me be aware of the treasure you are…
Let me not pass you by in quest of some rare and perfect Tomorrow.
One day I shall dig my nails into the earth,
or bury my face in my pillow,
or stretch myself taut, or raise my hands to the sky
and want, more than all the world, your return.
- Mary Jean Iron

Thursday, May 27, 2010

2010 MPM #21


Thanks Organizing Junkie

First Memorial Day in four years that we don't have to go to the Memorial Day Parade. We have no one in marching band anymore. Where will we be bright and early Monday morning? The Memorial Day parade. :) I hope whatever you do this Memorial Day weekend, you have a wonderful time and you're able to take a moment or two to think of those who gave their lives for our wonderful country and have made it possible for us to enjoy the freedom that we do.

Unrelated...do your kids eat hot dogs? Hamburgers? I envy you. None of my kids, yes, that's all four of them, eat hot dogs. Two of the four don't eat hamburgers and one of the two would probably prefer not to. I know they're healthier for it, but really! Once in a while it'd be really nice to just throw burgers on the grill and not worry about offering alternatives. [I do not believe in cooking two dinners and indeed never do that to accommodate my children's pickiness, but at the same time there's no way I'm going to insist on them eating something that's patently not healthy, like a big juicy cheeseburger.]

I never got to the sweet and sour chicken last week--when it was time to make it it just didn't sound good anymore, ditto the fajitas, so I combined them and made Pioneer Woman's grilled pineapple and chicken quesadillas instead. I tweaked them a bit, adding caramelized red onion and using cheddar instead of monteray jack because that's what I had. Also, I didn't bbq the chicken, instead I spread the sauce on the tortilla. Also, I sliced my pineapple into rings and brushed it with butter and brown sugar while it grilled. I loved these!!! They were very different than what I was expecting--similar to the BBQ cheddar chicken pizza roll ups I make, yet a bit different as well. I was surprised you don't really taste the pineapple, (I chopped mine up pretty fine), but it adds a certain *something* to the quesadilla. Best of all, I made everything on the grill, which as hot as it's been around here is a real bonus.

Friday (Play & my parents here): Grilled spice-rubbed chicken tacos with Brian Boitano's green salsa, Brian Boitano's grilled corn and bean salad, watermelon
Saturday lunch: ??
Saturday dinner (Rebekah's play):
Sunday lunch: s??
Sunday dinner: BBQ Ribs, potato wedges or skins, cole slaw
Monday lunch: Burgers on the grill (probably a garbanzo burger for Jacob), corn on the cob, watermelon
Monday dinner: Summertime Grilled "Panini", fruit
Tuesday: Lasagna-style baked ziti w/salad(for piano teacher), Bourbon Chicken, white rice, Suchuan green beans, rice krispie treats
Wednesday (Cub scout last pack meeting, dance, Jason here): Lasagna-style baked ziti (I leave the meat out, it's still awesome), salad, King Arthur Flour garlic knots
Thursday: Sweet & Sour Orange Grilled Chicken wings, fried rice*, pea pods


** I'm copying the fried rice here because the first time I went to the web site to link to it the site said it was no longer available. Yikes! It's back now, but I would hate to lose the recipe.
FRIED RICE WITH PEAS AND CHICKEN
Time: 30 minutes
3 tablespoons oil
1 medium onion, roughly chopped
1 bell pepper, stemmed, cored and roughly chopped
1 cup peas (defrost if frozen)
1 tablespoon minced garlic
1 tablespoon minced ginger
3 to 4 cups cooked rice, cooled
2 eggs, lightly beaten
1/4 cup mirin
2 tablespoons soy sauce
1 tablespoon sesame oil
Salt and ground black pepper to taste
1/4 cup minced scallion or cilantro.
1. Put 1 tablespoon oil in a wok or a large skillet, preferably nonstick, and turn heat to high. A minute later, add onion and pepper and cook, stirring occasionally, until softened and beginning to brown, 5 to 10 minutes. With slotted spoon, remove to a bowl.
2. Drain peas if necessary and add them to skillet; cook, shaking pan, for about a minute, or until hot. Add them to bowl.
3. Put remaining oil in skillet, followed by garlic and ginger. About 15 seconds later, add rice, a bit at a time, breaking up clumps with your fingers and tossing it with oil. When all rice is added, make a well in the center and break eggs into it; scramble them a bit, then incorporate into rice.
4. Return vegetables to skillet and stir to integrate. Add mirin and cook, stirring, for about a minute. Add soy sauce and sesame oil, then taste and add salt and pepper if necessary. Turn off heat, stir in scallion or cilantro, and serve.
Yield: 4 to 6 servings.

Wednesday, May 26, 2010

Just Sayin'

Facebook is wonderful. I get that. I like connecting with people during the day. It's fun to see what people are up to. Etc., etc.

However, Facebook is also many things to many people, and that's okay. Or should be.

If someone wants to keep their Facebook account for their friends, for people their age, that should be okay. It's rude, in my opinion, to call them out on it and demand accountability.

If, all of a sudden you notice you can't comment on someone's page anymore and if this someone is a person that you really don't know very well (and in their opinion does not know you really at all), don't take it personally. Move on.

It's normal for high school kids to not want to share their pages with people older than their peers. Really. Healthy too. Not personal, just establishing boundaries. Don't make something more of it. Don't act all put out about it. Don't have pity parties. Just move on.

Just sayin'.

Tuesday, May 25, 2010

Flash Mob at the Ohio Union 5/3/2010 - The Ohio State University

This is so cool!!!

Monday, May 24, 2010

Finished!



All right, I procrastinated way too long, but at least I got it done, and it turned out pretty well, if I do say so myself.

Now, if I could just figure out where I put the last 18 years...

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Monday Potluck...or Whine...You Decide


Yeah, sorry, I'm feeling a bit overwhelmed and when I'm overwhelmed I *may* tend to get a bit whiny. Things are just so crazy and difficult around here...and it's mostly stuff that will all be fine, that we'll all get through, problems we're lucky to have; ya-da, ya-da, ya-da, but somehow that doesn't help when you're in the midst of it.

Friday we continued on our path of trying to figure out why Jacob's been coughing like crazy for the past 8 months. I know, that's a long time. It's not constant, it's intermittent, but pretty often. I've had three phone calls from school about it in a five week period. The doctors think he may have asthma. Maybe. It just doesn't really fit the profile, but that's the best guess. So, he's on medications that I'm not completely comfortable with him being on, for a condition I'm not at all sure I believe he has. An appointment with a specialist is forthcoming and hopefully we'll get more satisfactory answers. The thing is, he doesn't wheeze, he just coughs--a lot. But, not a typical asthma cough, this cough sounds almost croupy. (That's not just Dr. Mom, his doctor said the same things.) We'll see...

As a nice bonus he came home sick from the Cub Scout campout. Staying home today because he's still sick. I don't even want to think about how much school he's missed this year. What can you do though?

I'm grumpy. Actually I should probably shout that in all capital letters. It's easy to see why, I'm stressed, I'm overwhelmed and I don't want to do any of the things that I need to do so I've put them off until it's crunch time and I'm mad at myself for that. Yeah, grumpy. I'm mad at myself for being so overweight, for not seeming to be able to do anything about it and for not exercising. Yet, honestly, I can't seem to find the time to exercise. I know it's because I don't do it, and if I can just do it, I'll find a way to fit it in, but right now, I really don't seem to be able to figure out time in the day.

I'm irritated with my daughter because she doesn't drive. I'm tired of needing to take her everywhere and mad at myself for how that sounds. It's not about taking her everywhere. Well, maybe a tiny bit. It's mostly about me feeling like where we live, driving is an essential life skill and I feel a bit like a failure because she does not have it. It's not realistic for her to be able to get a real job without the skill of driving. It's truly essential and she has no interest and now that she's leaving for school in just a few months, it's going to be very, very difficult for her to learn. Her biggest problem, I believe, is that she's leery. Well, when you don't drive, and each time is like starting all over again, it always feels like your first time and you're never going to be comfortable. If I forced her to get her temps again (and yes, that's clearly what it would take), she could drive June, July and August, then not again until November. If the weather's mostly decent she could drive for 5 weeks at break, then not again until June. If she were highly motivated, that would be no big deal, she'd do fine, she'd have her license by the end of the summer. But. She's not. She's not motivated at all. It's a very scary thing to be in the car, with your children, with someone who clearly does not want to drive. I can't force that upon her. I know, I've tried. I let it go and for the last six months or more she has not driven. But it's really starting to get very old. Very. I don't know how to say I'm not taking you everywhere anymore because you need to figure this choice you're making out so that it only impacts you, without sounding mean or harsh or like she's a burden, which she clearly is not. So, there's that.

What else? Ah, graduation. We have not planned her party, she wants to have it with another girl and nothing is happening with that and it's driving me crazy. We have not done an invite/announcement and now we're really in crunch time and it's driving me crazy.

Julianna needs a photo from each year of her life showing some significant event by Wednesday. That's a no brainer for most moms. For me? I can't even tell you how overwhelming that feels. Ditto compiling photos for Rebekah's graduation party. Hopefully things will get easier with J&J with so much being on the computer, but my photos are here there and everywhere and not organized at all. *sigh*

Okay, I think that's all of it. I'm overwhelmed and feeling guilty and for me, that's a bad combination. Hope things are much calmer for you, and much less stressful. Thanks for listening.

Sunday, May 23, 2010

2010 MPM #20

Lots going on as May Madness continues. We've got end of the year activities, graduation activities, Rebekah's play, recital...on and on and on. After surviving the end of the year I feel like I've earned summer vacation.

Here's what's for dinner at our house this week, check out organizing junkies for more meal plans.

Sunday lunch: Chicken Gyros, fruit, corn on cob
Sunday supper (concert): Brats, fruit
Monday (dance): Grilled BBQ Pork Chops, Skillet Corn Fritters (RR June/July 2010, p. 99), Salad
Tuesday (piano): Chicken Fajitas
Wednesday (dance): Sweet & Sour Chicken, rice, pea pods
Thursday (R. show): Grilled Pizzas & Salad

Lots of using the grill this week. It's supposed to be in the mid-80's. Hope the weather's good where you are too.

Thursday, May 20, 2010

PSF & Project 365 #20

Welcome! Thanks to Cecily for asking me to host Photo Story Friday with her. I'm looking forward to it. I can't wait to see what everyone's been doing.

May 14, 2010
First grade field trip to the zoo.

Julianna, maybe as the fourth and presumably last, maybe just because it's who she is, craves attention. Maybe they all have and I just notice it more with her because she's the fourth or because I'm tired, or because I feel guilty I don't get to do more with her or maybe, maybe, maybe...who knows. Doesn't really matter. She obviously needs more.

Her class was going to the zoo and her teacher needed volunteers. Mark said he would go. He's gone with the other kids. It was all set, life was good.

And then...his back went.

We waited and hoped, but it was not to be, so I got permission from the teacher (bless her heart) to take the baby I watch on Fridays and off we went to the zoo.

Once again, I was grateful I listened to that "little voice", made the effort, and made it happen. It was another powerful reminder that if I listen to her and not let all the other voices get in the way, I'll be happy I did.

We didn't see a lot of animals...you don't make real quick time when you're traveling with 18 first graders, but one we did see was Mark's favorite--
the red panda.

Of course we had to take a picture for Daddy.


I loved this pic of the three amigos.


No matter how old we are, life's better with friends, isn't it?

The Motley Crew
Very thankful I got to go and share this special day with her.


May 15, 2010
One of the reasons we gifted Jacob with an extra year before he started school was because of how very much he loves to play. I've never seen a child like that before. He absolutely loves. to. play. Still.

I hope he never outgrows that.


May 16, 2010
I'm terrified of bees yet fascinated with bumblebees.
Yes, I am a constant contradiction.


May 17, 2010
Mmmm, Alex's Brown Sugared Carrots. Yum!


May 18, 2010
I know, another cat picture.

This one just really captured me. She must have had a very hard day.


May 19, 2010
Maybe this was why...
the baby I watch LOVES to torture her.
Different day, but same treatment. lol.


May 20, 2010
Sick.
She has a lead in the school play the next two weekends.
Praying she's better soon, but it was fun to have her here for a sick day.
French fries and Mister Misty Freeze's may not cure anything,
but they sure help you feel better sometimes.


Thanks again Cecily.

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Tuesday, May 18, 2010

New Bike

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Jacob loves his bike, a Tony Hawk, a fact that never ceases to amuse me because Jacob could not tell you three things about Tony Hawk, possibly not even two. Still, he loves that bike and last year when I mentioned that it was getting really, really small, he got quite upset at the idea of getting a new one. No! He would ride this bike forever.

I let it go, because awesome Mama that I am I have definitely learned to choose my battles. If he wanted to ride a bike that provided the added benefit of a yummy snack of knees every time he pedals and saves me money...who am I to argue???

Well, as soon as the bike riding season began this summer, Jacob started asking for a new bike. To me, this was a big sign of personal growth--this is the kid whose clothes I hide when they're too small to avoid the melodrama. Asking to replace his beloved bike was huge. We shopped a bit and Jacob really, really wanted another Tony Hawk.

This weekend, we found the bike and he received an early birthday present.


He was so proud of his new bike he wanted the tags left on for a bit--it keeps that sense of brand! new! bike! It makes me so happy that we were able to get him the bike he wanted, that he found so much joy in it. Life isn't about material things, I know, but Jacob is not greedy, he doesn't ask for much, and for whatever reason this is what he really wanted and I know I'll smile every time I see him ride it. Double smiles when I think of the independence he's developing as he rode off around the block solo--the first time.


Monday, May 17, 2010

Monday Potluck #1

I love Monica's Monday posts. She participates in a potluck--perfect for a Monday. No pressure. I have so many incomplete thoughts rattling around in my brain today I decided to give it a try. Hang on to your thought processes, this one's really random. I'm all over the place today.

I heart our farmer's market. Saturday we got there late. Much too late to really get the good stuff--all that fresh, locally grown produce. We did manage to get all our chicken and beef for the week plus farm fresh eggs. It just feels better on so many levels. I love talking to the people who actually grow the food we'll be eating. I love knowing I'm helping to support people that share the same feelings I do about how food should be raised.

Rebekah ran a few errands with Jacob, Julianna and I Saturday while Mark rested his back. (It's acting up again.) As I dropped her off to play practice, I started crying. Sometimes, out of the blue, it hits me how very much I'm going to miss her next year. Speaking of which, we got our orientation registration materials Saturday. I don't have the words to express everything I'm feeling.

Have you heard about the possible link between pesticides and our kids and ADHD? Is it really all surprising? You put a chemical out that's designed to kill something but we're supposed to believe it's not going to harm us? Really?

Did you watch Brothers and Sisters last night? I don't know about you, but it left me feeling very down. I thought it was a real bummer. For me it's been very much an up and down season and after last night I'm not really that excited about it coming back next year.

Have you ever checked out the blog Enjoying the Small Things? Go. Seriously. It's wonderful. It's gorgeous. It's a beautiful peek into how the other half lives and if you go check it out you'll discover that applies in a couple of different ways. I think Kellie is who I want to be when I grow up.

Chris posted today about his rage concerning a 4 year old boy that was murdered shortly after being sent to send the summer with his mother and her fiancee. Chris wondered what's changed that would make a Mother allow this. I wonder the same thing. As you know, I've been a mama a long time. A really long time. Having kids spread out oven an 18 year period you see things change. One thing I'm noticing as a trend lately is that a lot of women are struggling with what it means to be a mother. I empathize, believe me. I think it's something we all struggle with from time to time. I struggle with it for myself personally, and also when I think about what values I want to pass on to my children, especially my 18 year old daughter about to make her way in the world. What do I want to teach her about motherhood? Personally, most days, I believe being a mother is the most important thing I will ever do with my life. Most days I give my family everything I have, because I want to, because it's the only way I know I'll be able to look myself in the eyes when my kids are grown and know I did my best. Most days, I'm okay with devoting myself 100% to motherhood, even knowing it's going to make it that much harder on me when it's time for my kids to fly the nest. Most days. Some days, I fall prey to the "victim" mentality. Some days I question whether I should be devoting all I am to my family or if I'm somehow missing out. Some days I wonder if I should "hold back". The thing is, truly in my soul, I only know one way to do this, and I'm tired of feeling like I should apologize for it, like I am somehow "lesser than" because I want to devote myself completely to my kids and my husband. I'm tired of feeling like I'm not worthy because this is what I want to do with my life. I believe we're seeing the effects in our society of motherhood not being valued, and I believe there's a very high price to pay for that degradation.

Wow! This certainly got heavy in a hurry, didn't it? Sorry about that. Just the way it goes I guess.

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Saturday, May 15, 2010

Free! Ink jet ink

I have 2 HP print cartridges, unopened, one's a 57--tricolor, one's a 58--Photo. Anyone who can use them?


First one to claim them gets them. We got a new printer back in January and can't use these.

2010 MPM #19

Friday: SW Brown Rice & Black Bean Burgers, rolled tortillas, watermelon
Saturday lunch: Patty Melts, French Fries, Milk Shakes
Saturday dinner (Rebekah practice): Leftovers
Sunday lunch: Chicken flatbread sandwiches, fruit
Sunday dinner (Rebekah practice): Cast Iron Pizza
Monday (dance, play prac., Mom's night): scrambled eggs, hash, fruit
Tuesday (piano, play prac.): Plum Chicken, rice, pea pods, dessert. Maybe Texas sheet cake. Maybe. Still trying to decide.
Wednesday (dance, scouts, play prac.): Chicken Spaghetti Casserole, broccoli
Thursday (sax, play prac.): Chicken Piccata, lemon spaghetti, caesar salad
Friday (date--Rebekah's play opens): Date Night to see the play--hopefully. Still trying to confirm the sitter. A little taste of what next year will be like. Rebekah doesn't babysit often, but it's wonderful when she does.

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Thursday, May 13, 2010

Photo Story Friday--Muffins with Moms

Last week Julianna's teacher held a "muffins with mom" open house.
I was so thankful I got to go.
We had a lot of fun and she had a lot of pride showing me around her room.


Practicing dance shadows.


Questions they've had about units they're studying.


They've planted seeds.
(Poor sweetie, she doesn't know it's doomed to die.)
We've never successfully grown a plant from seed. Never.
If you have the answer I'm all ears.
Seriously.

**I think this is my best shot of the week.**


A special poem for Mommy.




We've been so lucky for Julianna to have this teacher this year.
She's truly wonderful.
Young. Energetic. Full of enthusiasm.
Complete opposite of burned out.
Caring.
I could go on and on.



We had a great time at Muffins with Mom.
It was awesome to spend the time with her and to focus just on her.
She's pretty special.


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May 8, 2010


May 9, 2010
Mother's Day love for Grandma


May 10, 2010
Happy Mother's Day


May 11, 2010
Another tooth gone.


May 12, 2010
Mother's Day from far-away.


May 13, 2010
All kinds of Mommies feed their babies.



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Wednesday, May 12, 2010

WW--Happy 1803!


In our community, the third graders dress up in early 1800 styles and they spend the day learning local history. It's a day looked forward to for a long, long time.

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Tuesday, May 11, 2010

The Happiness Project #1

Mother's Day.

Isn't it wonderful when your children are little and all they want is to make your Mother's Day as wonderful as it can be?

Look at the flower I got from Julianna.
Priceless.
Truly.


It's remarkably similar to one I got from Jacob two years ago.
I've a very lucky Mommy.


They always make me smile.

So does this.
Hope it makes you smile too.





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